Monday, September 14, 2015

The Chemistry of Romantic Love and the Romance Novelist

Anthropologist Helen Fischer argues that romantic love is actually hard wired into the human body. After studying individuals who described themselves as just having fallen "madly in love", her team scanned their brains. It was not the cognitive, deep-thinking, philosophical parts that lit up. As you might expect, it was the older, more primitive regions that experienced increased blood flow due to being doused in the chemicals of love--like phenylethylamine (PEA), a close cousin to amphetamines.

Have you ever been lovesick, standing in front of the object of your affection and experienced euphoria, dry mouth, been out of breath, lose your appetite? This sounds a little more telling when you know what kind of chemicals your body is making.

But your body can't sustain a continuous high, so it begins letting the brain down with endorphins, nature's painkillers. Suddenly everything feels right, all your aches and pains are forgotten and you attribute that feeling of well-being to  being with your partner.  

Oxytocin, a powerful anti-inflammatory, is released  along with vasopressin which mitigates stress. You begin to get attached to your partner. You feel safe, stable, tranquil, and at peace with your lover. Your body wants to bond with them to keep these feelings. And with romantic love, this is easy to trigger. These chemicals are regularly released during sexual contact with a bonded partner.

Now throw romance novels into the mix. 

In 2014, University of Toronto researchers Maja Djikic and Keith Oatley found that reading "chick lit" and even better, romance novels, actually helps develop empathy skills. Reading romance allowed subjects to better interpret the emotions of others. The researchers felt that good fiction could even put its readers through an emotional roller coaster as if they were the protagonist. And as a reader of romance, I can attest to exactly that feeling when I've read a sweeping love story

So in effect, when a romance novelist writes about characters falling love, the readers are falling in love right along with them. All those same chemicals affect their brains, making them at first lovesick and then bonding them with the heroes and heroines. If the novelist has done their job right, they will experience those overwhelming physiological feelings of love. And if a reader falls in love with their characters, they'll turn to the novelist again and again to feel that feeling.

AIDEE LADNIER is a writer who loves quirky characters. You can visit her website at or meet her at some of her favorite social media sites:
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Carla Swafford said...

So cool. Thanks, Aidee.

Aidee Ladnier said...

I'm a geek whether I write romance or not. :)